The resurgence of pinup clothing has been embraced whole-heartedly by the plus size community..  There are now so many great looks and there is at least one to fit each of us.

The website, pinupgirlclothing.com, carries plus size size pinup fashions, such as these:
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The Ginger Dress in Black with White Eyelet Ruffle from Pinup Couture Sizes XS to 2X
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Embroidered Patsy Dress and Bolero Sizes 2-14
PINUP MAKEUP
It's really not difficult to do pinup makeup.  The classic pinup look concentrates on the  winged eyes and the red lips.
Here's a great youtube video on the pinnup look
 
 
So, I've been thinking about this for a few days and I realize that I have no New Year's Resolutions this year.  Not a one. Nothing. Nada.

Nothing personal-wise  (except maybe try to be a better wife and better overall person), nothing financial-wise (other than learning how to save more and spend less), nothing health-wise (I would like to get all my numbers down:  cholesterol, blood pressure, weight).

I guess what I'm really trying to do is just live my life a little bit more.  I've tended to become more insular, which is not necessarily that good of a thing.   

This year will be about trying to be more centered and more caring toward myself and more thoughtful of others.

So, I guess that's my resolution:  To try and be a better person.  That's really all I can do right now.

Maybe I actually do have a few New Year's Resolutions, after all.

 
 
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
 
 
THANK YOU IN HELPING ME UNDERSTAND
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I really want to thank everyone who has come to my site and given me the confidence to keep going. 

When I began this site, I thought I had a definite idea on the direction I wanted this to take. I wanted to find the best in living, fashion, style and lifestyle for the plus-sized woman.

I also wanted this to be about fat acceptance.

What I did not want this site to be about was diet.  I felt there was more than enough information around for that.

I have done so much research in the past few months, and while I feel more strongly than ever about the positive tone of this blog, I have also realized a few more things that I'd like to share with you:

1)  Curvy women and plus-sized women are really beautiful.  I believe that we tend to downplay ourselves , or allow others to downplay us, in order to blend into the background.  That is a bunch of garbage!  We CAN wear clothes well and we CAN look beautiful and we don't have to wait until we lose weight to begin out lives.  We need to start now. Get away from the black; buy some colors or at least,  some colorful shoes.  Wear the lingerie you want. There are enough sites that have beautiful plus-size lingerie that we don't have to go without. Also, as I've mentioned before, I believe that lingerie was "made" for plus-sized women.  We just look better

 
 
I love this Hanukkah video.  You have to really turn up the volume on this. I love how happy everyone is.
 
 
I'm really not feeling these clothing stores or designers that have gotten into the Plus-Size arena, yet continue to show their clothing on regular size models, rather than on REAL plus-size models.  This makes it virtually impossible for us to get the real vision of how the clothes would look on us.  Here are some examples:
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David Meister, Salon Z Knotted Sequined Gown
This  gown is from SaksFifth Avenue online.
This is from David Meister, Salon Z
Knotted Sequined Gown 

Please...in what universe would this model be considered plus-sized? 

Furthermore, considering she is the exact opposite of me in body size shape and size, I would have no idea of what that dress would look like on a "real" person.

This dress comes in sizes 18W-22W.

No! I'm not willing to fork over $660.00 to find out how this would look on me.  I can pretty much figure out it would look ridiculous!

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Wearever Tank Dress from J. Jill
This is called the Wearever Tank Dress from J. Jill

I understand that  this comes in smaller sizes than plus size, but do you think you could throw us a bone and show a true plus-size model wearing this?

J. Jill has this dress in sizes 1X-4X for the plus sized.
I have no idea if this would look like a ridiculous caftan or be really slimming on me.

This is on sale for $49.99.

Dear J. Jill:  You will retain your high class image by using plus size models...really.


A Couple that are More Realistic:

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Forever 21.com Ruched Lace Front Dress $22.80
Much nicer!

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Torrid.com Red Mesh With Silver Beading Dress
 
 
I have just read this article, entitled, 10 Tips for Dating Fat Girls, by someone named Elizabeth Nelson, for the site, mademan.com, and I'm still trying to decide if this is meant to be funny or ironic or if it was written as a serious article?

I mean, really....are you kidding me?

This looks like the manual I got with my new puppy.

What are your thoughts on this?

 
 

Haute Links are Great Links from around the Web

The Gift of Time by Manolo for the Big Girl.
10 Holiday Hostess Gifts Under $10.00 by Going from Tiffany to Target
Two Whole Cakes - How to Stop Dieting and Learn to Love your Body by Big Fat Blog
Holiday Flats by Moe at plusshe.com
Plus Size Dating Sites by cherimmhmm.hubpages.com
 
 
KWANZAA
Here are 10 Facts about Kwanzaa you may not  know:


1.  Around 18 million African-Americans  celebrate Kwanzaa (Quansa).  Kwanzaa is not a substitute for Christmas.  This is a celebration of the African  American people, their  culture, and their history.

2.  It was started in 1966 by Doctor Maulana Karenga, Professor at the California State University, Long  Beach, California.

3.  It takes place December 26th – January 1st.

4.  The colors of Kwanzaa are black, red and green. These colors predominate  in the decorating of homes, along with baskets, cloths and harvest symbols.

 5.  There are 7 principles of Kwanzaa:  Unity, Self-Determination, Collective work and responsibility, cooperative economics, purpose, creativity and faith. Each day of Kwanzaa is represented by a different principle.

 6.  A candle is lit on each day of the holiday and placed on the kinara. The
first candle is black, symbolizing the African American people.  The next three  are red, representing the struggles of the black  people.  Next are three green candles, which symbolize hope for  the future.  The candles are lit from left to right.


7.  The high point of the holiday is on the last day where a feast is made. 
This feast is called, karamu.


8. The name Kwanzaa derives from the Swahili phrase matunda ya kwanza,
meaning first fruits of the harvest.

9.  The last day of Kwanzaa, or Imani, focuses on gift giving as a means to
honor the creative spirit and reaffirm self worth. In following this tradition, 
the gifts are often homemade rather than purchased.

10. This is a beautiful celebration where ceremonies and cultural expressions
predominate.

 
 
I stumbled on the Frederick's of Hollywood site and was surprised to find that I really want to try some of their clothing and lingerie.  It looks pretty nice.  Here are a couple of things I'd like to try:
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This Frederick's cowl neck dress sweater dress is on sale for $62.00 and comes in sizes 1X - 3X. 

You'd definitely need shapewear under it, but I think it's really sexy without going overboard.

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This Little Black Dress is so cute!  It is called 'Sequins and Shirring Knit Dress Plus.
All four reviewers of this dress gave it 5 stars. I also really love the long sleeves, since so many LBD's are sleeveless.

This sells for $64.00 and comes in sizes 1X - 2X.

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I think this dress would be so great for Resort Wear.  You could also add leggings or pants with it if you wish.  The dress is called, 'Sublimation Floral Print Dress PLUS'.
Be sure to read the reviews, however, as this dress tends to run small.